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Selecting a Portland Divorce Attorney Who’s Right For You

Published September 1, 2021
Divorce is a personal matter, so it’s important to select an attorney who will treat your situation with the respect and care it deserves. Identify your divorce goals, do your research, and choose an attorney that makes you feel heard.

Divorce is a deeply personal process, as you’ll need to make a series of decisions impacting your private life. Determining how you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse will divide your assets and property, negotiating a fair spousal support agreement, and approaching child custody and child support arrangements can be challenging. Many people find that having a compassionate and experienced divorce attorney by their side allows them to navigate the process more smoothly and confidently. Here are a few suggestions to help you select a Portland family law attorney who will support your specific needs.

Identify Your Divorce Goals

Before you start searching for an attorney, it’s helpful to think about your divorce goals. For some people, the thought of building a new life after a divorce can be daunting. Perhaps you gave up your career to raise children during the marriage, and now you wonder how you’ll be able to secure employment. Or, you may run a business with your spouse, so you’ll need to think about how you’ll want to address this component of the divorce. Having clear goals can help your attorney understand how to approach your situation and obtain your desired outcome.

Do Your Research on Portland Divorce Attorneys

You do not have to rush into selecting a divorce lawyer. Instead, take some time to identify two or more potential options, then explore their website, read client reviews, and schedule an initial consultation. Ask the attorneys about their relevant experience to get a sense of how they typically handle the divorce process in Oregon. During the initial consultation, you can ask about their rates to estimate how much this process will cost. While the content of their responses is important, consider their tone, communication style, and other factors to determine whether you feel comfortable working with them.

Go With an Attorney Who Makes You Feel Heard

Ultimately, you’ll likely identify one attorney who “feels right.” Perhaps their answers impressed you, or you enjoyed how responsive they were to your specific questions. Maybe you just liked how they made you feel heard and understood during the consultation. For many people, the ideal divorce lawyer has experience with many types of divorces—both amicable and contentious—and goes the extra mile to ensure that their clients’ needs are met.


If you are looking for trusted and compassionate legal guidance for your Portland divorce, reach out to Lee Tyler Family Law, P.C. today at (503) 233-8868 to get started with a dedicated family law attorney and mediator.

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